All orifices are in need of some hydration after a night of drinking.

Mornings can be a difficult time for all of us, especially if we go out drinking the night before. These sluggish mornings can be made more difficult when hormones are involved.

The sun filters in through the blinds and your bedmate wraps his or her arms around you a bit tighter, softly kissing your neck and whispering, “good morning …” Suddenly, you are well aware what your lover is thinking, and it seems like a pretty good way to start your day. Unfortunately, there are many roadblocks slowing you down from having morning sex.

For people like me who love to kiss, mornings are definitely a challenge. I honestly don’t mind kissing someone with morning breath if I am in the exact same state. Most of the time, the reason I’ll avoid morning kisses has nothing to do with the other person’s breath. I’m either scared of what my breath smells like or I am so dehydrated, kissing is not an option.

Speaking of dehydration, all orifices are in need of some hydration after a night of drinking. This means that natural lubrication is generally not an option unless there is time to consume a lot of water and time for it to set in before getting it on. If this is the case, I would no longer consider it morning sex, as you’ve had time to shower, brush your teeth and run some errands.

Dehydration can really ruin a good time, but don’t get frustrated, keep some KY jelly and a couple of bottles of water by the bed for emergencies. You might as well keep a bottle of aspirin by the bed as well since dehydration can cause a killer headache that can be made worse by emitting any energy.

If you don’t want to get up to brush your teeth you have a few options. One option is having sex in the spooning position, where you aren’t face to face. This position can be nice because it takes very little energy or movement, it’s sexy and this is often how we sleep with our partners anyway. Hell, I’ve woken up having sex in this position, as it’s hard to avoid if both people are sleeping nude.

One can also either suck it up and kiss anyway, or keep a bottle of Listerine spray by the bed as well. (Notice your nightstand getting a little crowded.) The spray doesn’t work as well as brushing your teeth, but it will suffice in a pinch. Oh yeah, if you or your partner falls asleep in makeup, you might want to have a couple baby wipes for the morning because the makeup will be embarrassingly smeared across her or your face.

All of this preparation sounds a little bit like overkill, doesn’t it? That’s somewhat of a problem since the point of morning sex is sexy spontaneity to start out the day. Sure, you may encounter problems along the way, but nothing worth doing is ever easy. So sure, sex may be a no-go one morning and phenomenal another, but isn’t that the way life goes?

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