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Does size matter?

By Devon Wiesend

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Size does matter because it is a part of the selection process.

This question has been plaguing the minds of men for centuries. Is my sexual equipment sufficient to satisfy my partner?

Lets be brutally honest here: size does matter.

Now dont start panicking just yet. Genitalia are just like any other part of your body “ theyre unique to you. No two penises or vaginas are the same. This means that your sexual parts fit with someone elses in the world. Its like a giant sexual human puzzle.

Its true. Not only are some penises longer and narrower, but some vaginas are as well. For the men who may be naturally smaller in the area behind the zipper, there are women out there who have smaller vaginas as well. Those women want a guy with a giant penis about as much as a guy with a small penis wants a woman with a large vagina.

This is just the way we were all built. Just like the size of our hands or the color of our eyes, genitals are unique to the person. Size matters because being comfortable and pleasured at the same time is very important to any sexual relationship. No one wants sex to be painful in a bad way, leaving you so sore you cant have sex again for days. This happens when sex partners have mismatched sizes.

We all know what happens when the opposite happens in a mismatch. No one ever wants to hear, Is it in yet? Sex can be very pleasurable for partners who are mismatched in sizes as long as both partners are willing to discuss their problem like adults. There should never be any blame assigned to either party. One cant help the size and shape of his or her genitals any easier than changing heritage.

There are many things mismatched couples can do. There are toys and extensions out there to make up for any gap. If tab A has trouble getting into slot B, there are a million lubricants that can help. Also, a relaxing massage can do amazing things for loosening up all of ones muscles. The more a person gets stressed, the more muscles involuntarily tighten.

Size does matter because it is a part of the selection process. It goes along with preference of hair color, whether your personalities match, and desire for children. A person who wants a bunch of children wont be looking for someone who has been fixed to avoid the possibility of having kids. This is just another part of trying to find a partner that fits.

There are many criteria we follow to find the perfect mate: sense of humor, habits, social likes and dislikes, looks and sexual compatibility. Naturally, we still have animalistic instincts that we dont even notice. We may be attracted to a person from a distance, but find no chemistry there because of pheromones or merely a lack of compatibility.

Of course size matters “ everything else does. Having sex comfortably is a natural desire. We look for someone who fits each of us on many levels; having a good sex life is a healthy aspect of a relationship.

We are all pieces of a puzzle; we just need to find the person that fits snugly.

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