If one is in fact defined by deed, then surely the temptation arises to act in accordance to how others would best perceive us.

The philosophy of existentialism offers man with tremendous possibility.

It is a doctrine of independence and self-definition. It presents man with the opportunity to fashion his existence in an authentic manner and most importantly, it demands the necessity of taking responsibility for the actions and decisions made in the course of one’s life.

Action without accountability is impossible for the simple fact that actions define a person and affects everyone.

If one is in fact defined by deed, then surely the temptation arises to act in accordance to how others would best perceive us. There is a tremendous amount of pressure upon us to fit in and follow basic norms and status quos.

Individuality is a suppressed concept in our society. This, from an existentialist’s perspective, is basically absolute bullshit. To be for others in such a manner is to play a fictitious role on a stage designed by someone for their amusement at the expense of your integrity.

While this may avoid a certain level of anxiety among friends or family, such an action — being who “they” want us to be — is detrimental to one’s character. Hence, there exists a fine line in the necessity of others to help define us as unique individuals, for action without reaction is a scientific impossibility. But the authentic individual must stay true to one’s ideals, perceptions and moral codes of conduct.

Existentialism also presents us with a certain sense of self-reliance. Whatever one is capable of, one has the power to do. Outside of that, nothing else can be counted on. We cannot expect to rely or depend upon others for anything pertaining to our own lives. Self-sufficiency is imperative to existence.

Decisions made pertaining to your life must be your decisions. Further, one must take responsibility for one’s actions. If you are going to get wasted off of low-end tequila and then feel compelled to have sex with your best friend’s girlfriend, for instance, then do it.

It is imperative, however, that you wake up the next day and face the consequences of your actions. Do you love her? Then run with it. A mistake and regret? You have the rest of your life to live with your decision, which consequently affects many around you — the friend who may implement the word “betrayal” the next time the two of you have words together, for instance.

Existentialism in action may lead us to be a bit more honest with each other. It may help us recognize the tremendous amount of option and possibility that we possess as free individuals.

It recognizes the impact that we have on those in our surrounding as well. Most importantly, it brings to light the concept of uniqueness that exists in each person and the chance to let the individuality that exists in each of us flourish and manifest itself.

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